BECOMING ONE
Build the marriage you were created for
Marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts—a covenant designed to reflect His love and bring joy, unity, and purpose. At Becoming One, we are dedicated to helping you and your spouse live out your God-given roles as husband and wife, creating a marriage most could only dream of.
IV & Bené Marsh
IV & Bené Marsh are a dynamic couple with a passion to see marriages thrive.
God has placed a unique mantle for Godly marriages on their lives. They LOVE love! They believe in love! Their goal through the teachings in Becoming One is to equip couples to live a life in order and agreement so that they can love each other well.
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Married since 1994, the Marsh’s have two sons, Garrett and Joshua, a daughter Ella, and two daughters-in-love, Jessica and Molly, and two precious granddaughters!
They are the lead Pastors of the multi-site BCOMING.CHURCH and the founders of Becoming Man and Becoming Woman. They know the call God has placed on their life - to restore honor to Biblical masculinity and order in marriages.
When they aren't coaching, leading a Becoming One or Warrior Evolution event, you can find them spending quality time with each other and their family. They love to laugh together and go on dates - especially dancing!
Building the Foundation for Growth
True transformation begins with a partnership rooted in trust, accountability, and shared purpose. At Becoming One, IV and Bené Marsh are committed to guiding you toward clarity, growth, and fulfillment. Together, we create a supportive space where you can embrace challenges, explore possibilities, and unlock your full potential. Here’s how our coaching partnership works:
How We Guide You to Growth
IV and Bené’s role is to walk alongside you, providing the tools, insights, and support you need to thrive.
Collaborative Partnership
We co-create a space for growth, enhancing your self-awareness, creativity, and personal mastery while cultivating your full potential.
Empowering Questions
Through timely, thoughtful questions, we help you uncover hidden roadblocks and foster resourcefulness to navigate life’s challenges.
Respect for Privacy
We honor the sensitive nature of your journey, allowing you to choose what to explore and ensuring a safe, judgment-free environment.
Facilitation of Insight
By using proven coaching techniques, we help you tap into your inner wisdom, overcome challenges, and explore possibilities that lead to breakthrough moments.
How You Commit to Growth
As a client, your active participation is essential to achieving transformation. Your role is to embrace the process, take responsibility, and commit to growth.
Embrace Self-Awareness
Commit to understanding your challenges, identifying opportunities, and working through any blind spots that may hinder your progress.
Be Intentional
Stay focused on making empowering decisions that reflect your values and aspirations, taking the steps necessary to achieve your goals.
Own Your Actions
Take responsibility for your actions, behaviors, and the outcomes they produce, making conscious choices that align with your goals.
Stay Accountable
Follow through on action plans and activities designed during coaching sessions, ensuring progress and measurable growth.
The success of coaching lies in the strength of the partnership. With IV and Bené as your guides, and your commitment to the process, there’s no limit to the transformation you can achieve. Ready to take the first step?
Discover Your Path to Purpose
Strengthen your identity, empower your spirit, and live your divine purpose through Becoming Man and Becoming Woman.
At Becoming One, we know the journey to a thriving marriage starts with thriving individuals. That’s why we’ve created spaces tailored to your personal growth—rooted in Biblical principles and designed for transformation. Whether you're a man seeking to embrace your God-given role or a woman ready to step into authentic Biblical womanhood, we invite you to explore the Becoming Man and Becoming Woman communities. Begin your journey today!
BECOMING MAN
Step into True Masculinity
Are you ready to embrace the man God created you to be? Becoming Man is more than a movement—it’s a calling. It’s about rediscovering honor, integrity, and strength in a culture that has forgotten the value of true masculinity. This is your opportunity to lead boldly, love fiercely, and live with purpose.
Through powerful teachings, mentorship, and transformative experiences, you’ll uncover what it means to walk as a man of God—unshakable in your faith and rooted in your identity.
BECOMING WOMAN
Unleash Your God-Given Strength
Becoming Woman is your invitation to step into the fullness of who God created you to be. It’s about more than personal growth—it’s about becoming a woman of purpose, grace, and strength who transforms her world. Whether as a daughter, wife, mother, or sister, you were designed to live in creative order, walking boldly in your identity as a beloved child of God.
With inspiring teachings, uplifting community, and life-changing events, Becoming Woman empowers you to thrive in every area of your life.
